In the aftermath of the tragic event in Tumbler Ridge, a courageous survivor of a mass shooting is opening up about coping with loss and trauma.
Nathalie Provost, who survived the École Polytechnique mass shooting in Montreal in 1989, now serves as the federal Liberal MP for Quebec’s Châteauguay—Les Jardins-de-Napierville riding.
Provost emphasizes the importance of allowing survivors, families, and those impacted by tragedy to embrace the grieving process, no matter how long it may take.
“Grieving is tough, it’s messy, but it’s necessary for healing,” Provost shared.
She acknowledges that grief can linger indefinitely, especially after enduring traumatic incidents like the Tumbler Ridge shooting, which may require a prolonged period of coming to terms with the aftermath.
Furthermore, Provost urges the public to show respect for both the victims and the affected community as they navigate their grief.
“It’s incredibly challenging to experience such intense emotions in the public eye. We must be understanding, calm, and discreet around them as they go through their journey,” she advised.
Drawing from her own experience, Provost highlights that individuals who confront trauma and grief head-on can discover inner strength and resilience.
“We must hold onto hope. Life is resilient, and so are we. Strength doesn’t mean being invulnerable; it means acknowledging our vulnerabilities,” she shared with 1130 NewsRadio.
Provost, who was 23 when she survived the tragic attack at the university, emphasizes that she will always carry the survivor’s spirit within her.
“I will always be a survivor. Those scars now embody a strength that I gained over time,” she reflected.
When it comes to children coping with grief, Provost stresses the importance of letting them be kids.
She emphasizes that children should be able to lean on supportive adults to help them navigate the rollercoaster of emotions they will inevitably face.
The recent mass shooting in Tumbler Ridge, located in northeastern B.C., claimed the lives of nine individuals, including the perpetrator. Tragically, six of the victims were children between the ages of 11 and 13.